Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?

Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?

Matthew 7:24–27, NIV, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

Do you see the key to being prepared? It's by being wise and building our lives on a solid foundation of God's Truth. In other words, it's by being His disciples. The disciple that is obedient and daily lives his life according to God's Word will be prepared when the storms come and will survive them, the ones who aren't real disciples, who aren't walking daily in Him, will be surprised by the storms of life and be defeated by them.

Why do I say that the key is being a disciple? If you read the first sentence of that passage again you'll see that is the definition of a true disciple. A disciple of Jesus is someone who doesn't just "read their bible", but who puts what they read/study into practice.

Let's see what Jesus says about being His disciple since that's what we're concerned with.

John 8:31–32, NIV, To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

In this passage Jesus say those who "hold" to His teachings are really His disciples, as opposed to those who simply hear them and believe them. The word "hold" means to "abide" or "remain" or a more modern way of saying it would be to say "continue " in the teachings.  Also, the word translated "teachings" is also translated "Word", meaning the scriptures of course..

Luke 14:26–27, NIV, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be my disciple. And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.

Luke 14:33, NIV, In the same way, any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple.

Matthew 16:24, NIV, Then Jesus said to his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.

In the above passages Jesus tells us that anyone that wants to be His disciple must always put Him first above everyone and everything else in their lives. He doesn't say that we have to do this on Sundays, but every moment of every day. Jesus and His Will must come before everything and everyone else, including ourselves. That's the part most people forget about. Our own desires, wills, wants, needs, etc must be in second place to those of Jesus. If we don't do that, then we're not His disciples.

Matthew 10:24–25, NIV, “A student is not above his teacher, nor a servant above his master. It is enough for the student to be like his teacher, and the servant like his master.

This is again showing that we must submit to Him.

John 13:35, NIV, By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

Jesus also tells us that one of the fruits of discipleship that others will see is our love for each other, for all others who are saved.

John 15:8, NIV, This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.

Jesus tells us that disciples will bear fruit, the more the better and it's that fruit that proves we're disciples. Therefore anyone who claims to be a disciple who's life doesn't show it, isn't telling the truth.

Mark 9:30–31, NIV, They left that place and passed through Galilee. Jesus did not want anyone to know where they were, because he was teaching his disciples.

John 16:13–14, NIV, But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come. He will bring glory to me by taking from what is mine and making it known to you.

I included the above because it shows that Jesus teaches His disciples and we know that He tells us that once He ascended that the Holy Spirit would be the one teaching all those who follow Him. So another mark of a disciple would be their relationship with the Lord and the fact that they're constantly being taught by Him.

Mark 16:20, NIV, Then the disciples went out and preached everywhere, and the Lord worked with them and confirmed his word by the signs that accompanied it.

2 Corinthians 5:19–20, NIV, ...And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us.

These passages show that disciples share what they know with others, both with believers & unbelievers and that the Lord actually works with us when we do this.

John 13:13–16, NIV, “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. I tell you the truth, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him.

Finally Jesus tells us that His disciples are to serve others, not Lord it over others.

Many years ago when I looked around at all the people who called themselves "Christians", I knew that something was wrong with them but I didn't know what it was. But their lives sure didn't look anything at all like the lives of the disciples or early Christians. (I was an ancient history buff so I'd studied that too) The vast majority of Christians today simply didn't have the supernatural "power" that the early Christians did. I knew the Bible said that God didn't change, so I figured the fault then had to be with the people today. Something was wrong with us, but what???

I finally realized that most people today who say they are Christians, don't put Christ first. They don't study His Word and they don't live it. They don't hunger and thirst for His Word, in fact if they spend 15 minutes a day reading it they're doing better then most, and that's a very sad commentary. They pray when they want something from Him and then get mad and throw a tantrum if they don't get it, even though they're being disobedient to Him. It's like they think God "owes" them or something. They don't really love Him, because they don't really know Him, they just know about Him. Some of them are actors, pretending to live a Christian life but when the storms come they fall so the storms show them for what they really are.

So that's the difference between Christians today and the disciples and the early Christians. The early Christians were imbued with the power of the Holy Spirit because they weren't "just believers". They were disciples. Maybe the church has preached too much about "believing" and not enough about "following". I don't know but perhaps that is what many of the storms of life are about right now during these end times; to separate the wheat from the chaff and to let those who really are saved know that it's time to show it. Jesus constantly stresses that we have to obey, we have to do what He says, not "just believe".

Luke 11:28, NIV, He replied, “Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it.”

In fact they must have had problems with some people "just believing" even back then because James specifically says that when people think that's all they have to do, they're deceiving themselves.

James 1:22–25, NIV, Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it—he will be blessed in what he does.

Please don't think that I'm saying we need works to be saved, that's not at all what I'm saying. Works are what naturally occur because someone is saved, they don't precede salvation. So we believe to be saved, but those who truly believe are going to obey and that fact will be evident in their lives by their works and their fruit. See what I mean?

I guess the difference is in thinking that salvation is like those things you check saying you "agree" (believe) with the license agreement when you install a new program on your computer. You check the box saying you agree and the program is installed and you're done. You don't have to do anything else, think about the agreement ever again, or anything. But salvation isn't like that. Yes, belief is the requirement, but when you really believe, you're going to do more then just put a check mark in the box. See what scripture says? (I'll put it in 3 different translations so we can be sure to get the meaning)

Romans 10:8–11, NIV, But what does it say? “The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart,” that is, the word of faith we are proclaiming: That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved. As the Scripture says, “Anyone who trusts in him will never be put to shame.”

Romans 10:8–11, KJV 1900, But what saith it? The word is nigh thee, even in thy mouth, and in thy heart: that is, the word of faith, which we preach; That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.

Romans 10:8–11, ESV, But what does it say? “The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart” (that is, the word of faith that we proclaim); because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved. For the Scripture says, “Everyone who believes in him will not be put to shame.”
jjboehle December 14th, 2010 11:55 PM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
Cindy, can you please explain this a bit further...."Works are what naturally occur because someone is saved, they don't precede salvation. So we believe to be saved, but those who truly believe are going to obey and that fact will be evident in their lives by their works and their fruit. See what I mean?"

I mean, I think I am understanding....but am not sure. I believe and trust in out Lord and I have been saved and all, but what exactly is meant by works/fruit?

Pathwalker December 15th, 2010 01:46 AM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
I know JJ just asked an important question that I also would like to hear what you have to say and I have one as well. I understand that reading and studying the Bible, everyday, is very important thing to do daily and applyling what we learned, because if we dont apply, then what have we learned. What about witnessing, fellowship, ? Isn't this consider a part of fruits/ works?

jammie December 15th, 2010 02:42 AM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
your works come from your salvation, your not earning your salvation.
you do what God says because you love him!

Cindy December 15th, 2010 09:56 AM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
First let me say thank you to all who checked this out and are participating! I was so surprised this morning to see that someone had!

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Originally Posted by jjboehle (Post 677808)
Cindy, can you please explain this a bit further...."Works are what naturally occur because someone is saved, they don't precede salvation. So we believe to be saved, but those who truly believe are going to obey and that fact will be evident in their lives by their works and their fruit. See what I mean?"

I mean, I think I am understanding....but am not sure. I believe and trust in out Lord and I have been saved and all, but what exactly is meant by works/fruit?

That's a great question JJ! This can be a very confusing issue for many and is honestly difficult to write about for me because of that. This is what the book of James is all about and he really explains it quite well. Let's look at what he says:

James 2:14–17, NIV, What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, “Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.

OK, let's put what James says in a scenario for us. I know you're saved JJ, so let's say that I come to your house to visit and you can see that I'm very hungry and obviously haven't eaten for some time and my clothes are pretty worn out. (I'm using you and me in this because James is talking to someone who is saved and you are, and he's talking about a brother or sister in Christ-or another person who is saved, and I am too) Ok, so we're visiting and I admit that I'm hungry. Now you don't have much, but you do have enough for your own lunch at least. Being saved, and having the love of God in your heart, knowing the Lord wants us to help each other, what are you going to do? Are you going to sympathize with me and say, "gee, I'm sorry you're having such a rough time...it seems like everyone is these days!" and then offer to pray for me, and after our visit, send me on my way? Or would you share your lunch with me and even perhaps say that same thing and offer to pray? There's no doubt in my mind that you'd share your lunch with me and you'd probably try and find some other food for me too! I know you would because that's what the Holy Spirit would be telling you to do and your heart would be overflowing with love for me and wanting to help me. :hug:

Now someone who isn't saved wouldn't have a problem telling me they were sorry for my problems but gee, everyone's having a tough time and they'd let me leave with nothing to eat. Yet those same people might very well tell you, "oh I believe Jesus is God and died for my sins!" but they're not saved. James puts it like this:

James 2:19, NIV, You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder.

So you see, for someone to simply "believe" something isn't enough. "Just" believing would be like having "head knowledge" without the "heart knowledge". It would be second hand, like knowing about God but actually knowing Him and having a relationship with Him. See what I mean? Again let's look at how James explains it: (keep in mind that the word "faith" could also be translated "belief")

James 2:20–26, NIV, You foolish man, do you want evidence that faith without deeds is useless? Was not our ancestor Abraham considered righteous for what he did when he offered his son Isaac on the altar? You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did. And the scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness,” and he was called God’s friend. You see that a person is justified by what he does and not by faith alone. In the same way, was not even Rahab the prostitute considered righteous for what she did when she gave lodging to the spies and sent them off in a different direction? As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.

Let's bring it down to the physical level to make it a bit easier. This reminds me of when my middle son was about 3 years old. Someone had been breaking windows in the apartment building we lived in and my children had heard me talking about it and asked me questions about it. I explained that someone was being very bad by throwing rocks at the windows and making them break. Later that day, sure enough, another window was broken. My 3 year old came to me and told me he did it. I was shocked and asked him if he had broken the others too. He said No, he hadn't but he had thrown the rock at this one because even though he figured the rock probably would break it, he "believed" it would break it, he wanted to check to make sure! :duh: Before he threw the rock, his belief that the rock would break the window was second hand. He promised he wouldn't do it again though because now he "really knew" it would break a window. Now his belief was "heart knowledge" instead of just "head knowledge" so now his deeds would reflect that belief. After that incident he never broke another window and I knew by his deeds that he really believed. See what I mean?

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Originally Posted by Pathwalker (Post 677852)
I know JJ just asked an important question that I also would like to hear what you have to say and I have one as well. I understand that reading and studying the Bible, everyday, is very important thing to do daily and applyling what we learned, because if we dont apply, then what have we learned. What about witnessing, fellowship, ? Isn't this consider a part of fruits/ works?

Another great question and I'd like to include the second part of what JJ asked with yours, the part about fruit if you don't mind. Jesus tells us:

Matthew 7:15–20, NIV, “Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them.

So we see that people are the trees He's referring to here, just as in other places He talks about Him being the vine and we are the branches of that vine. As long as we remain in Him, we will bear fruit because He will cause that to happen. So now we need to know what kind of "fruit" to look for. Fruit on a tree is something we can see and from what Jesus said, fruit in our lives will also be something we can see. So let's take a look at what the fruit of the spirit is:

Galatians 5:22–23, NIV, But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

When we see these qualities in others, we can see that they are growing in their faith. The more the person grows in faith, the more these qualities will show up in their life.

Now as for fellowship, the first fruit of the spirit mentioned is love and we know that when we are saved the Holy Spirit pours out His love into our hearts. When we are saved we begin to love God and His love fills us so that we begin to love others who are saved and even those who aren't. Eventually, the more we grow in our faith the more that love grows to include more and more people, even the "unlovable". But when we're first saved usually that love is for God and those we already love and others who are saved. When you love someone, you want to be with them don't you? Hence you spend time with God and you spend time with others who are saved--fellowship! As your faith grows you also begin to realize that you want others to know about your God and all He's done for you. Often at first because we've heard from those who are more mature in their faith, we realize that we "should" witness, before we feel it in our hearts. But again, the Lord has everything under control. The more we grow, the more spiritually mature we become, the more our love for both God and others grow till we do feel in our hearts that we must tell others about Him. As we again continue to grow the Lord then teaches us how to tell others and we begin witnessing from our spirits rather then from our heads.

While there's nothing wrong with the various programs etc that teach people to witness to others, I'm afraid that many people are witnessing out of head knowledge and a feeling of "duty" rather then because the Lord has shed His love for the unsaved into their hearts and directed them to witness to others. When we do things God's Way, and in His timing, He will teach us what to do and what to say and even tell us who He wants us to talk to. More importantly when we do things His way, we'll be doing it in the power of the Holy Spirit and not out of our own power. We're much more likely to have success that way. I often think the Lord must look on us the way I used to look on my children when they were babies and trying to copy me...it was so cute lol, but they were doing it all wrong of course since they didn't know how to do those things yet lol and that's pretty much what we do when we try and do things out of duty rather then growing in our faith and doing them because we know the Lord has said it's time for us to be about doing that.

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Originally Posted by jammie (Post 677854)
your works come from your salvation, your not earning your salvation.
you do what God says because you love him!

:amen: :yes:

I hope this helped and please, do feel free to ask for more clarification!

Cindy December 16th, 2010 12:43 PM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
It's neat that you all were asking about the fruit of the spirit yesterday because last night the Lord woke me up to study some more and guess what He chose? It was about a different subject in a way, or at least I thought it was to start with lol, but it turned into this very subject of being a disciple and the fruit of the spirit! :laughing: I just love how He works! So let me share with you what He showed me last night.

First no one becomes a disciple of their own choosing. As we know, God calls us into fellowship with Him through salvation. So everyone that is saved, is actually called by God, personally! That's pretty neat when you think of it. I was going over again how Jesus called each of His disciples. If you recall the Gospel accounts, He saw each one as they were working at their normal jobs in their normal lives and simply said to them, "Come, follow me". Let's look at when He called Matthew for an example:

Matthew 9:9, NIV, As Jesus went on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax collector’s booth. “Follow me,” he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him.

What I love about it is how each of them immediately simply got up, walked away from their normal lives and followed Him. Wow! Can you even imagine it??? Remember Peter and the others? They were working with their fathers as fishermen, but when Jesus called, they left their fathers, their boats and went with Him; no excuses or "just a second let me put my boat away or give my dad this thing he'll need or say good bye to anyone etc; they just obeyed! I had to wonder if it was because Jesus was there in the flesh, so I went back and checked even the old testament: Abraham, Isaiah,Jeremiah, Moses etc. Most of them also immediately obeyed. There were a few however (and I bet you know which ones they are lol) that did try to give God excuses and reasons why they couldn't do what He was calling them to do immediately. I think the worst of the lot was Moses who came up with excuse after excuse. Interestingly though as we all know, God won out and Moses did eventually obey, although He did make God angry with all his excuses. God didn't let one single one of them go until they had obeyed Him. That to me was a relief and I think it shows how God is with us too even before we're saved. He keeps on us until we do submit to His call.

There was something else that I bet we've all noticed about the people God calls. Strangely we tend to think of all those people, like Abraham, Moses, David, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Peter, John, Mark, Matthew, Luke, Paul, Stephen, and so very many others as though they're different from us. Like they're "special" and we couldn't be like them no matter how we tried. Yet every one of them was a perfectly average, normal human being, just like us. Most had little money, most had little education even. Sure some had more then others and there were a few like Paul that were scholars, but for the most part they were just average Joes that wouldn't have stood out in any crowd.

What made them stand out though is that God called them. He made them different and of course He put their stories in His Word so we could learn from them. When we study their lives we see that each and every one of them changed when God called them. For some that change was instant and very dramatic, like with Paul, but for most the change, while instant, was gradual and became more and more obvious with time. In fact, that's even true of Paul. Although his initial change was so great that it was obvious to all, the changes God wrought inside him showed up more and more as time went on and he grew in his faith.

So, what changed in all these people's lives when they answered God's call? The first thing that changed I think is their relationship with God. For each of them, God became more personal, closer to them and they to Him. He became their teacher as well as their confidant instead of just an impersonal God that they were supposed to somehow obey and work to please.

This obviously happens with us when we are saved are obedient and become disciples. We start to hear from God, we feel the pull of the Holy Spirit to study His Word--we feel hungry for His Word like we can't get enough of it. As we study and talk to Him, we begin to realize that He is teaching us and that brings Him even closer to us and we begin to rely on Him more and more. Just like the people in the Bible, the more we learn from Him and about Him as we study, the more our love for Him grows too. Because our love for Him grows, this brings about the next change in us just as it did for each of them.

The second change was that their relationship with others changed, just as ours does too. Remember when we're saved, God pours His love into our hearts. His love is different then ours in that He loved us when we were still His enemies--He didn't wait until we were lovable. He loves us without prejudice and knowing just how wretched we really are. It is His love that enables us to love others in the same way. Let's see what some of the scriptures say about this:

Romans 5:5, NIV, And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.

1 John 4:12, NIV, No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

1 John 2:5, NIV, But if anyone obeys his word, God’s love is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in him

1 John 4:16–19, NIV, And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because he first loved us.

God gives us His love when we are saved and when we are obedient and become disciples, He teaches us and His love grows within us--first for Him and then for others as well. The more we mature in our faith the more this love grows. It is this love combined with what He teaches us about what He's already done for us that will eventually combine to cause us to want to tell others about Him. It is also this love that will show up in our daily lives. The more it grows the more we will be changed and the more the love of God will be evident as fruit in our lives because our relationship with others will change. We'll become more forgiving, more compassionate, more peaceful in ourselves as well as kinder, gentler, and have more self control.

The next big change that occurred was a change in their worldview. Again this happens with us as well. We begin to see the world and the people in it in a different light then we did before we were saved. This again is something that can both happen suddenly and instantaneously as well as gradually. For most of us it's a gradual process that occurs as we grow in our faith. How can we be against abortion until we understand how God feels about children and how He feels about murder? How can we understand that divorce is a big deal as is living together with someone without the benefit of marriage until we understand how God feels about those things? How can we understand that we are to bless Israel and pray for her until we understand how God feels about Israel?

For an example of how some of their world views changed, we can look at Peter. We know that the Jews weren't allowed to enter the home of a gentile or eat with one either. The Lord had impressed on the Jews that they were to be separate from the world, just as He tells us to be, but they turned that into a set of rules instead of understanding the heart of the matter. God wanted all people to be saved though, not just the Jews, so He sent Peter a vision.

Acts 10:27–29, NIV, Talking with him, Peter went inside and found a large gathering of people. He said to them: “You are well aware that it is against our law for a Jew to associate with a Gentile or visit him. But God has shown me that I should not call any man impure or unclean. So when I was sent for, I came without raising any objection. May I ask why you sent for me?”

Because of this, Peter's worldview was changed as would be the worldview of all believers. Again, the more our love and knowledge of the Lord grows, the more our worldview changes.

Finally, the last thing that changed for many of them was their profession. They went from being ordinary men and women, housekeepers, slaves, wives, husbands, fishermen, shepherds, tax collectors, doctors, farmers, etc to being fishers of men, prophets, missionaries, teachers, some even became Kings, but all in one way or another became leaders of others. People who were basically uneducated became great teachers of God's Word--and they didn't have to go to seminary to do it! People who had had others serving them all their lives, became servants to others so they could lead them to God. All their professions changed as they answered His call and were obedient to God.

That last one really surprised me when I realized it too! If we study their lives though we see that while there's no way they could have done any of the things God asked of them before He called them and prepared them, every single one of them were successful in their new profession because God equipped them for it before sending them out. He does exactly the same thing with us.

He calls us and when we are obedient, He teaches us and prepares us for our new life's work. Often we may not even realize that's what He's doing! I know I sure didn't realize it at first! When I did realize it, the first thing I did, after praying about it of course was call others that I considered "Godly" men and women and talked to them about it. I wanted confirmation of course. I did get confirmation but I was also discouraged from it by the people who should have been the ones to support me. When we look at the lives of others God called in the bible though, we see that the same thing happened to them. Those who were jealous or for any other number of reasons, tried to discourage them from doing what God had called them to do.

As I mentioned before though, God doesn't let go of those He calls, regardless of how many excuses or "reason" they give Him. His Will will be done, period!

Proverbs 19:21, NIV, Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.

Isaiah 14:24, NIV, The Lord Almighty has sworn, “Surely, as I have planned, so it will be, and as I have purposed, so it will stand.

So what does this all have to do with the fruit of the spirit? Look at that verse again:

Galatians 5:22–23, NIV, But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

Can you see how as each of us was called by God and as we each grow in the love and knowledge of Him, that each of these characteristics become more and more a part of our personality? Each of these characteristics are things that grow within us as we grow in Him because they are each things that are part of the Lord's character which He is forming in us. As Paul said too, the most important one of all of these is love for it is the basis of all the others. The fruit of love is talking about both our love for God as well as our love for others. Jesus Himself tells us this as well:

Matthew 22:37–40, NIV, Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

The more we grow the more we will fulfill God's law--not because we're obeying rules; not because we "have to" out of duty or fear of losing our salvation, but simply because we love Him. Amazingly even that isn't from ourselves, but a gift from God! He does it all for us! What an amazing God we serve!

2 Corinthians 3:18, NIV, And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.

Marianne December 16th, 2010 03:41 PM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
After we are 'Saved' we become disciples of Jesus Christ, we leave the old person behind and start anew.. it is a willingness to follow Jesus in every way, including the way of the Cross.. we must surrender our selfishness and lay down our lives for the needs of others and help them in any way we can

Our lives are not our own anymore.. we live for Christ.. by doing His Will on the earth..

Cindy December 17th, 2010 12:27 PM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
Amen Marianne! And we do it not because we "must", but out of love and gratitude for what He's done for us already and what He's going to do for us.

The first principal of discipleship as you say is that we submit ourselves to Jesus. He chooses us and we choose to learn under His direction. That doesn't mean we won't experience persecution and trials. In fact it means the opposite, that we will suffer more because we will be becoming like Him. The world hated Him so much they killed Him (or tried to anyway) and therefore the more we become like Him, the more the unbelievers in this world are going to hate us too.

Matthew 10:24–25, NIV, “A student is not above his teacher, nor a servant above his master. It is enough for the student to be like his teacher, and the servant like his master. If the head of the house has been called Beelzebub, how much more the members of his household!

So if we're loved by even unbelievers then we should probably examine ourselves as scripture says:
2 Corinthians 13:5, NIV, Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you—unless, of course, you fail the test?
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1 Peter 4:12–14, NIV, Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you.

The great thing is that the more obedient we are, the more possible it becomes to triumph even during the suffering!

Over and over we are told that we should "rejoice" or "count it all joy" when we suffer trials or persecution and that these things will cause us to grow in our faith so that we will be more like Jesus and make Him proud of us when He returns.

We're also told of the marvelous rewards He will have for us then too. I've heard so many people put those down as though they weren't anything to even think about and yet that's exactly what the Lord wants us to do! He wants us to strive for those rewards! No of course there won't be any jealously or envy in Heaven! The whole point of the rewards though is to please Jesus, not ourselves! We're not winning a new TV, we're winning rewards that make HIM look good, not us! Let me quote here what I said about this on another thread:

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Yet we are admonished to continue in Him, "abide in Him", to grow in Christ so that we won't be ashamed before Him... It's the difference between being a believer and being a disciple.

1 John 2:28, NIV, And now, dear children, continue in him, so that when he appears we may be confident and unashamed before him at his coming.

1 John 2:28 Should a believer fail to abide in Him, however, there is the possibility of shame when Christ comes. This intimates divine disapproval at the judgment seat of Christ, referred to in 4:17-19. The NIV‘s unashamed before Him might be more literally rendered: “not be ashamed before Him.” The possibility is real but does not, of course, suggest the loss of salvation.
The Bible knowledge commentary : An exposition of the scriptures

1 John 2:28 We abide in fellowship with Christ by being obedient. Only thus can we have confidence … at His coming. The Christian who practices righteousness shows that he has been given eternal life by Him who is righteous. The Open Bible

1 John 2:28 Abiding in Christ is not only by faith, but by obedience.
Spirit filled life study Bible.


2 Peter 1:10–11, NIV, Therefore, my brothers, be all the more eager to make your calling and election sure. For if you do these things, you will never fall, and you will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

1 Corinthians 3:13–15, NIV, his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man’s work. If what he has built survives, he will receive his reward. If it is burned up, he will suffer loss; he himself will be saved, but only as one escaping through the flames.

Hebrews 10:35–36, NIV, So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.

1 John 2:28 “abide in Him” This is a PRESENT ACTIVE IMPERATIVE. This is the third PRESENT IMPERATIVE used to promote Christian perseverance The Beloved Disciple's Memoirs and Letters

Philippians 1:20 I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.

1 Timothy 3:13 Those who have served well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus.


I like the way this bible teacher explains it:

Believer To Follower

Q. I have a question about verse Luke 9:23. Is this verse talking about sanctification? or eternal salvation? And finally, what are we to deny ourselves? Thank you for your time.

A. Luke 9:23 says, “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.”

After salvation, this is the most important message of the Gospel. If we want to be a follower of Jesus we should set aside our selfish ambitions for life and seek His will for us instead. That’s what the phrase “deny himself and take up his cross” means. In Romans 12:1-2 Paul urged us to offer our whole beings as living sacrifices to God. He said we should no longer conform to the pattern of this world but to be transformed by the renewing of our mind. The way he might say this today is that we should abandon our secular world view and adopt a Biblical world view instead.

In Matt. 6:31-34 Jesus put this still another way. He urged us to seek His Kingdom and His righteousness and in return He would accept responsibility for all of our needs. In short, the Lord has a purpose for our life and if we give Him permission, He’ll fulfill that purpose in us and make sure we don’t have to worry about anything along the way. You have my assurance that you won’t find a better deal anywhere.

As you look around you, it’s easy to see that most Christians don’t do this, so it can’t be a salvation issue. It turns you from a mere believer into a follower, from living a defeated life into living a victorious one (1 Cor. 9:24-25).
1 Corinthians 9:24–27, NIV, Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air. No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.

posted with permission
http://gracethrufaith.com/ask-a-bibl...r-to-follower/

Edited it add: I meant to add something I read earlier this week that really struck me as true. It was in the book Glorious Appearing. The Tribulation is finally over and the believers are gathering together their first night to talk about what they've been through and have a bible study about what to expect next. The leader or teacher of the group explained that during the Trib when they had been studying this material with others who were like minded, they had discussed if it was even necessary to study this because after all, Jesus Himself would be there and everyone would be able to talk to Him. After prayer and study though they realized that Jesus expects us to know this material, that's why He gave it to us. He didn't inspire men to write the bible because He didn't have anything better to do. Even during the 75 day interval between the Trib and the Millennium and even during the Millennium itself, especially it's beginning, He's not going to stop and explain to people what's happening and why it's happening because they were to lazy to study it for themselves. It will be much the same way when Jesus was here the first time. Only occasionally did He follow a parable or teaching with an explanation and even then it was only for those who had the ears to hear. Obviously I'm speaking about adults who have the blessing of having or being able to have a Bible. For others who were never able to have the blessing of God's Word our Lord will deal with differently.

Luke 12:47–48, NIV, “That servant who knows his master’s will and does not get ready or does not do what his master wants will be beaten with many blows. But the one who does not know and does things deserving punishment will be beaten with few blows. From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.


Not only that, but recently the Lord's made me aware of other kinds of "rewards" that He has for those who are obedient. I mean besides the crowns and things like that. You'll discover these other things when you study all that happens after the Tribulation--before the Millennium, during it and even after it. Many people say that there won't be "divisions" in heaven, and I can't speak to that yet, but I can tell you that there will be divisions during the Millennium, and that includes divisions between those who have been saved and those who are disciples. It's really exciting! let me share something I just saw in a couple of my commentaries about this:

Revelation 19:7–8, NIV, Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear.” (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of the saints.)

Christ will reward us according to our faithfulness, and the rewards we receive will make up the “wedding gown.” Dr. Lehman Strauss writes, “Has it ever occurred to you … that at the marriage of the Bride to the Lamb, each of us will be wearing the wedding garment of our own making?” What a solemn thought!
Wiersbe's expository outlines on the New Testament

One of the false interpretations that has plagued the church is the concept that God treats all saints exactly alike. Instead, a literal interpretation of the Bible distinguishes different groups of saints, and here the bride is distinguished from those who are invited to the wedding supper. Instead of treating all alike, God indeed has a program for Israel as a nation and also for those in Israel who are saved. He also has a program for Gentiles in the Old Testament who come to faith in God. And in the New Testament He has a program for the church as still a different group of saints. Again in the Book of Revelation the Tribulation saints are distinguished from other previous groups.
The Bible knowledge commentary : An exposition of the scriptures (Re 19:9)


Again I'm not saying there will be jealousy or bad feelings in the Millennium or Heaven. There won't be! Everyone will get exactly what they've earned and we'll each know that and be comfortable with it. That doesn't mean however that we won't wish we ourselves had done more for the Lord while we were here. I'm sure though that the Lord won't allow us to dwell on that unduly, but especially initially the thought will be there. That's why I keep harping on this, because few teachers do and I want to see everyone here be able to just heap rewards on our Lord and make Him so very pleased... It thrills me to just think about it! You see, anything we do here to "earn" a reward, isn't actually done by us, but is done by the Lord through us, so He is the one who should be praised for all of it and ultimately that's exactly what will happen. That's why we're supposed to want those rewards because they are yet another form of "fruit" of the spirit--or I suppose you could say that they are the natural outcome of the fruit of the spirit in our lives.

Marianne December 18th, 2010 04:10 PM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
I find that each new day that the Lord gives me on this earth.. is one more day to learn more about Him..

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So if we're loved by even unbelievers then we should probably examine ourselves as scripture says:

2 Corinthians 13:5, NIV, Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you—unless, of course, you fail the test?
I had a friend for 18 years, who said, she had Jesus in her heart.. but I could see the fruit wasn't there.. Nick and I had the opportunity to witness to her and her husband who is into philosophy and asked many questions..(even about reincarnation :shock:) but, you could tell he still didn't believe.. he had his own beliefs.. my friend wouldn't say much in front of her husband.. as she was ashamed to say the name Jesus.. in front of her husband..

It came to the point where I couldn't be around them anymore.. all I felt was darkness.. I thank Jesus for revealing this to me.. He gave me the opportunity to witness, to them.. and I knew He will take care of the rest..

I guess what I am trying to say here, is that I liked my friend to a certain extent.. but, it came to a point where I couldn't be around her anymore.. as it was dragging me down to her level.. and I knew, that as a Child of God.. I had to show her that I was different.. and no longer the person I use to be.. I was living for Jesus now.. and had to do His will on this earth.. she saw the change in me.. and asked me, where is the old Marianne?... I liked her better.. I told her I was a Christian and living my life for Jesus now.. slowly but surely she went out of my life..

Cindy December 19th, 2010 10:13 AM

Re: Are you a disciple? Are you prepared for the storms of life?
 
I know what you mean Marianne. I think this is perhaps one of the most difficult lessons we have to learn. I know it was for the Jews, they never did get what God tried to teach them about being separate and what that meant. I've seen it in my life in several different ways since being saved and learning what God desires of us. It's still something I struggle with though at times.

One way I've noticed this is if I go somewhere that I really don't belong, and I just act like myself, other people start feeling very uncomfortable. For example, when I met Bruce he used to hang out at the VFW or the Legion a lot because that's where his friends were. He didn't drink, he just drank coke, but he'd hang out with them. So when we started dating, he took me there. Without me saying anything or even changing my expression in any way, people would stop swearing and stop acting like idiots LOL. It would start out with them being their "normal" selves and swearing, then noticing me and they'd be apologizing all over the place. At first I thought it was just because I was a woman, but I looked around and there were a lot of women there, so that wasn't it. They had to sense there was something different about me deep down and they reacted to it. Of course what they were sensing was the Holy Spirit, although they didn't know that. Within about a year of meeting me, Bruce just stopped going there. The Lord had changed him too by then and he no longer fit in there any more then I had lol

My neighbors are the same way as far as swearing and knowing there's something "different" about me that they react to. I don't think they know it's the Holy Spirit though. And this is where I feel I've failed God and am trying to do better at. Although I've often spoken about God with them, I've never clearly presented the Gospel to them so they could be saved. That really bothers me and I've been praying that the Lord will let me rectify that. But this is where the thing about separation comes in.  What bothers me though is I think that if I'd been doing my job and telling them about the gospel from the very beginning that they'd probably already hate me. Since they don't, I know I haven't done a very good job of it. The thing is, I don't want to just go up and start preaching at them either.  I want it to come from my heart, not my head.  In other words, I don't want to do it, just to say that I have, I really do want them to be saved, or at the very least to have planted seeds.  I've tried before to lead into it when they've brought up a problem, and I'll say something about how the Lord can handle whatever it is.  I guess I just haven't been clear enough about it.  I think what I'm going to have to do is literally practice with myself and make up conversations so I'll be ready and know what to say when the time comes.  And of course I always pray that the Lord will give me His Word's to speak then too.

Monday, November 25, 2013

2 Samuel 12 The consequences of sin

The year before this chapter begins, David had sinned against the Lord. He's seen Bathsheba naked and did not take his thoughts or imagination captive. Instead he dwelled on the thoughts of lust and let his imagination run wild with them. Next, he used his position of authority to get Bathsheba into his house and have sex with her. When she became pregnant and his scheme began to fall apart, he then used his authority (which the Lord had given him) to have her husband killed. During all this time he was also sinning by not taking his sinful thoughts captive and replacing them with God's truth. Plus he was continually trying to hide his sin instead of confessing it and repenting because he didn't want to stop. He now had a false god and idol. He had placed fulfilling his lust above God, showing that he loved himself, more then he loved God.

David must have been happy during that past year though right? I mean after all he got to play with Bathsheba during that time and that's what he'd wanted, right? Wrong! Psalm 32 and 51 tell us a little of how he felt during that year: Psalm 32:3–4 —When I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. *For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was sapped as in the heat of summer. Selah * He was being disciplined by the Lord during that year as the Lord wanted to bring him to repentance and that discipline began as soon as he refused to take that first thought captive! He eventually became sick and weak, unable to do the things he normally did due to his illness. He was sick at heart as well as his body for he knew he was living in sin. Yet, he still wouldn't give it up or confess it, and he still continued to sin, to hide it and then to sin more by having her husband killed. He lost his joy, he was no longer a good witness for the Lord, and his power. The Lord wasn't going to answer his prayers when he was doing this, that's for sure! He probably became short with people, snapping at the least little thing, as well as grumpy until he became downright depressed.

Strange isn't it. He got what he wanted, even though he knew it was a sin, and yet instead of being happy, he winds up depressed! We see that the Lord gave David more then enough time to confess and repent of his sin on his own...over a year, but still he refused, so the Lord sent the prophet Nathan to him with a message.

Nathan pretended he was telling David about a case that needed to be judged, though he never said that. He just let David think so, and told him about a rich man who had badly used a poor man by taking the poor man's one and only ewe. David got very angry when he heard what the man had done and said that the man should be put to death for it, and should have to pay back what he'd taken 4 times over. Although angry, he was still being fair because that's what God's law calls for in such a situation. Isn't it funny how easy it is to see other people's sins and judge them, but how hard it is to see our own at times?

It was then that Nathan revealed to David that he was the man he had been talking about. Nathan then told him what God said about it: that He'd given David all he had, made him King, given him power and authority and all the women and servants he had, made him victorious over all his enemies, etc. and still David took another man's only wife and then had him killed. He then told David what his sin would cost him. I'm sure David was totally stunned, but to his credit, he finally stopped hiding, didn't try to make any excuses, and immediately confessed, agreeing that he had indeed sinned against the Lord.

At that point, Nathan assured David that the Lord would allow him to live even though the death sentence was what the law called for for what he'd done. However, there were severe consequences for his sin which would still come to pass. Those consequences, all of which the Lord had told him, began as soon as Nathan left that day. One of my commentaries explains this better then I can so I'll simply quote what it says:

God was ready to forgive David’s sins, but He could not prevent those sins from “bringing forth death” (James 1:15). God’s grace forgives, but God’s government must allow sinners to reap what they sow.
Psalm 99:8: "you were to Israel a forgiving God, though you punished their misdeeds." “He shall restore fourfold!” David had declared punishment concerning the man in Nathan’s story, so God accepted his sentence. The sword never did depart from David’s household: the baby died; Absalomkilled Amnon, who had ruined Tamar (both men are David's sons and Tamar is his daughter); then Joab killed Absalom (2 Sam 18:9–17); and Adonijah (David's son) was slain by Benaiah (1 Kings 2:24–25). Fourfold! Add to these trials the awful ruin of Tamar, the shameful treatment of David’s wives by his son Absalom (2 Sam 12:11; 2 Sam 16:20–23), plus the rebellion of Absalom, and you can see that David paid dearly for a few moments of lustful pleasure. He sowed lust and reaped the same; he sowed murder and reaped murders, for “whatever a man sows, that he will also reap” (Gal. 6:7). Wiersbe’s Expository Outlines

We often console ourselves thinking, "Well, David's sins were awful so that's probably why there were such terrible consequences". The problem with that kind of thinking is that God considers all sin the same. It doesn't matter if it's telling a little white lie, not studying His Word, cheating, or killing someone. The consequences of all sin is death. I'm not saying that if we tell a little white lie that someone in our family is going to die-not at all! God is always just. What I'm saying though is that we tend to make our own sins seem very little, especially in comparison to what David did. Yet David's first sin was that he simply didn't take his thoughts captive and replace them with God's Truth. How often do we do that??? And we usually think we get away with it too, don't we? But we never do. Never. Not because God is mean - far from it! But because God is righteous and just and fair and mostly because He loves us and wants what is best for us. It's always easy for us to say the way we've been treated isn't fair, but if someone were to do the same thing to us, we certainly wouldn't want them to get off the hook.

The consequences of David's sins lasted the for the rest of his life and the lives of his children. Again, not because God's mean, but simply because that's what sin does. It's done that since the very first sin. Look at how long the consequences of Adam's sin has lasted... it's still going on! I have looked back on my own life and can honestly say that I can see how my own sins, even "little sins" have affected my children and are still affecting them. It's another aspect of sin that we often choose to ignore and not think about. Especially if the sin is something we want to do like David did. But our sins affect our children and other people as well. It is not just us that is affected by them. Everyone pays when someone sins. That's why God hates sin so much. He hates to see us hurt. He loves us. Think how we as parents feel when we know someone or something is hurting our child - we'll do anything to stop it! We hate it! Well, that's a small taste of how God feels toward all sin because He knows far better then we do, just how horribly sin hurts us, His children whom He loves.

He knows we are enslaved to and by sin and because He loves us and hates how it hurts us, He was even willing to come and die so we could finally be free from it. And so we are, just as David was freed when God forgave his sins. Yet the consequences of those sin continued just as ours do. God will not stop the law of gravity because someone was stupid enough to think they could fly off their roof. Nor will he stop the consequences of our sins because if He did, there would be nothing to stop us from continuing to sin. God's grace forgives us, but His government must allow us to reap what we have sown, even though it hurts Him as much as us.

The Lord shows us something else that's very important in this story that we often overlook. Often when we sin, especially if we think it's a "terrible sin" like I'm sure David did, we then decide that He can no longer use us, that we're no good to Him anymore. We'll spend hours, days, months, sometimes years, thinking about what a horrible thing we did and how bad we were and "now God can't use us". But that too is a lie that needs to be taken captive and replaced with the truth God shows us here. Because after David confessed and repented, God did indeed use him and bless him. He even sent Nathan back to him to assure him that he was being blessed.

After the child that had been conceived in sin had died, God caused Bathsheba to become pregnant again, with another son. This time she gave birth to a boy they named Solomon. The Lord sent Nathan to tell David that He loved this child and of course David knew that the child had been given him by the Lord as all children are. Next the Lord gave David yet another victory over his enemies and another crown.

We see that as soon as David had confessed and repented of his sin, although there would be consequences from the sin, his relationship with the Lord was completely restored. This is shown in more detail in psalms
32 and 51. It's very true of all of us as well. When we're forgiven, God promises to never bring our sin up to us or anyone else, not even Himself, ever again, and to never use it against us. What an awesome God we serve! When we're forgiven, God restores us to our previous place of service and our relationship with Him is repaired. We once again have the joy of our salvation. So we must never allow Satan to trick us into thinking that we've gone too far or that we can't be used by the Lord anymore etc. Where sin abounds, grace abounds more!

Of course there's much much more in this chapter then what I've shown here, but this will have to do for now. Please read 2 Samuel 12 and then read psalm 32 and psalm 51. When reading the psalms see if you can see what David lost and how he felt during his year of sin and what he gained and how he felt when he finally confessed and repented of his sin. The reason being that his experience is one we all share when we sin, regardless of what our sin is. If there's any portion of the psalms or of 2 Samuel 12 that you'd like to discuss, I'll be happy to do so.

 

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

A relationship with God 2

Even after realizing that God was always with me, I remember how at 1st I badly wanted someone to teach me His Word. I read and studied it on my own every day, but I was just sure I was missing more then I was getting. I'd read the verses that tell us that God is our teacher, but felt that I just wasn't smart enough or something for Him to be able to get through to me. I told myself that I didn't doubt God, but instead doubted myself. I didn't realize at the time just how sinful that thought was, as I didn't follow it through to it's logical conclusion - I'm more powerful then God and smarter then He is since I can prevent Him from doing what He says He will. Praise God that He is a merciful, loving God and understands us much better then we understand ourselves and doesn't treat us as our sins deserve.

I even prayed, asking God to send me a teacher, but He didn't - at least not for quite awhile. Instead, He showed me that He really was teaching me. I thought the way He reassured me was pretty neat too as it combined another thing I was unsure of still. Since I was still getting to know Him, I was also struggling with how to tell the difference between His Voice and my own thoughts.

Each day I spent time reading His Word and talking to Him about what I was reading. I'd comment on it, ask Him questions about it etc. When I asked Him questions, sometimes it would make me think of another verse, either right away, or later on. When that happened, just in case it was the Lord leading me, I'd go to that scripture and read there for a bit. What amazed me was that it always pertained to whatever it was He was teaching me about, even when I didn't think so at first. Being stubborn however, I thought maybe it was just a coincidence. Then other things would happen. When I was able to go to church, it was as though someone had been spying on my time with the Lord each day and had told the Pastor what I'd learned from the Lord, and especially anything I was questioning whether or not it was from the Lord! It was like the pastor was talking directly to me!

By the way, when I studied with Him, all I had at the time was my bible. Bruce did buy me a Strong's Concordance but I couldn't use it as it was too heavy for me to hold due to my disability and the surgery I'd had. So I had no commentaries or anything at all except my Bible and my God.

Other weird things started happening besides seeming like the pastor was talking to me. Someone might call or stop by and out of the blue, they'd bring up the very subject or scriptures I was studying and tell me that their pastor had told them something neat about it and then proceed to tell me exactly what the Lord had been teaching me that week!

As time went by and I became more and more used to strange things like that happening to confirm that the Lord was indeed teaching me. I would like to point out though that I knew the Lord was causing them to happen because I'd prayed about it and He knew I needed reassurance. He was answering my prayers. That was another area of my life that had changed. Instead of having a time of prayer and then not praying again unless there was an emergency or something like that, until the next days prayer time came, I was now praying all the time. Not "formal" prayers, but simply talking to Him. It just grew out of our study time. Since I talked to Him while I was studying, it just seemed natural to continue to talk to Him throughout the rest of the day, so I did.

What truly amazed me was that I seemed to be somehow more in tune with the Lord, and as time went by, that seemed to get stronger and stronger. Often the Lord would warn me before something happened so I could pray about it before hand. It was actually kind of spooky the first few times it happened, but eventually just felt normal. It didn't even occur to me that anything different was happening until I overheard Bruce tell one of his friends that he should ask me to pray about it for him because God always answered my prayers right away. I heard the friend start to laugh and then Bruce told him that He was really serious and began to give him examples. I hadn't even been aware that Bruce had paid any attention to those things, but he had. Hearing him tell his friend about them is what made me realize just how much had changed in my life.

I no longer doubted that God was teaching me. I knew He was! I talked to Him constantly and it didn't occur to me to doubt if He was listening, not after all the times He'd shown me He was by having the pastor talk about something there was no way He could have known about! And because I talked to Him all the time and listened for Him too, it didn't occur to me to wonder when He'd answer anything I prayed about. I simply knew He would answer me. If the answer wasn't immediate, then I knew there was a good reason for that and He'd answer when the time was right. I realized too that the Lord had somehow become my friend. A real friend. Yet there was a difference between our friendship and say my friendship with another person. In our friendship, there was never any doubt about who was in charge or who was Lord and who was servant. At the same time though, there was a love there that filled and still fills every part of me. God has continued to show me ever since then, that there is no area of my life that He doesn't want to be an intimate part of; there's nothing I can't talk to Him about.

I've discovered that God is the greatest teacher anyone can have. Since that beginning, the Lord has blessed me with a huge bible library full of commentaries, and every kind of theological book you can think of. It's truly awesome! There is no one He cannot teach! It's really wonderful to have a living, growing relationship with Him too. Another great thing about it is that He wants to have this kind of relationship with everyone. There's nothing magical about it either. All you have to do is ask!

Job 36:22 —“God is exalted in his power. Who is a teacher like him? *

Friday, November 8, 2013

A Relationship With God

When I first got hurt and became disabled, I had no idea just how much my life would change. When I found out that I wasn't going to get better, I fought it. When I was told I couldn't work anymore, I fought it. I failed at both anyway, as my doctors knew I would and more importantly, as the Lord knew I would. See, I didn't just turn to doctors, I turned to the Lord as well, and even He had told me that part of my life was over. Done. Finished. He had something new planned for me. Well, I didn't want something new. I liked my life the way it was, thank you very much. So I alternately fought with Him and repented, making myself even more miserable. Finally, I came to accept it. I grieved for a time, which is normal, and then got about trying to discover what my new life would be.

One of the hardest parts of my new life was loneliness. I was used to being active and being around other people, including friends. Now I couldn't leave the house except occasionally on a weekend if Bruce took me grocery shopping. I guess I expected that I'd still have all my friends, but it didn't work out that way. Oh they came by to see me at first, but their visits got fewer and further between as time went by, until finally they stopped altogether. They still had lives and were busy, I didn't and so I got left behind. That really hurt. I understood they didn't mean to hurt me, but it still hurt, and I was still lonely. Then, one day, the Lord opened my eyes to a scripture as I was studying that morning. It was,
Hebrews 13:5–6 —Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” *So we say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?” *

I remember reading it, and it was like a sudden tide of emotions swept over me as I really understood that God was really with me -right then and there, and that He'd never leave me. I remember having a good cry - and it was a good cry because it was joyful tears for a change instead of those from self pity.

He showed me through that scripture and then many more that day as we continued, that He was always there with me and had even promised He wouldn't leave me. That He also lived within me and you can't get much closer then that! He reminded me of what we were doing right then -fellowshipping as some would call it; or simply being friends and having a good time talking with each other like any good friends would.

I suddenly understood that I'd had that all along, but had been so focused on my own self pity for the things I had been focusing on that I didn't have, that I'd missed the most important thing that I did have! The Lord!

I'd also been telling myself that I no longer had any purpose, which of course added to my self pity and feelings of loneliness. The Lord showed me that I was wrong again and I did have purpose but that I was looking in the wrong direction. I was looking at only myself and what pleased me, what I wanted. He gently reminded me that I had been created to do good works which He Himself had already prepared for me. (
Ephesians 2:10) I didn't need to go looking for them because He knew what they were and He would lead me to them as I followed Him each day. My job, my purpose, was to bear fruit for Him but again, I didn't need to concern myself with the how's, when's, and where's of it. All I had to concern myself with was making sure that I remained in Him and in His Word each day. (John 15, especially John 15:5–8)

That wasn't a problem since I was now really enjoying my fellowship with Him each day. I used to think of it as my bible study and prayer time, but once I realized that what it was really about was fellowshipping with Him, my whole attitude toward it changed. Really, so did my life, because how could I be lonely when I had my very best friend right there with me all day long to fellowship with?

From that time on I rarely felt lonely again. Oh once in while the old self pity would rise up in my mind, but the Lord taught me to take those thoughts captive and replace them with the Truth that I wasn't alone at all. All I had to do was open my eyes to the truth of His presence and then enjoy it. It was my choice. I could ignore Him or I could start talking to Him and enjoying being with Him. I chose to enjoy being with Him. He's been my constant companion for the last 13 and and a half years now.

I can honestly say that He's never left me and is always ready to listen to whatever I want to talk about or whatever's on my mind. He's also more then ready to talk back to me through His Word and in other ways as well. It really is a two way relationship, not a monologue. It's not pretend. I'm not talking to myself. There have been times that I've asked Him to send me some human company - not because I wasn't enjoying my time with Him, but simply because I also wanted to have contact with others. He understood that as well of course, and always sent someone when I asked. Sometimes He'd even send someone before I got around to asking . I can't imagine going back to living the way I did before, where I just spent X amount of time studying, and X amount of time praying and then went about my business. Now He's always a part of my conscious mind, so I'm always talking to Him and listening to Him, He's part of everything I do. I don't go about my day and try to find time to "spend time with Him" because I spend all my waking hours with Him.

I hope this helps someone else who might be feeling lonely or unsure how to have a relationship with the Lord. It's the most wonderful thing that's ever happened to me, and it gets better every year as I our relationship strengthens and gets closer.

 

Saturday, November 2, 2013

The Hall of Faith part 2

Reading about people in the Hall of Faith is always encouraging. It also helps us because it tells us exactly what faith is. Heb 11:1–2 —Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. *This is what the ancients were commended for. * Being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we don't see..... What do we hope for? Really?

If we're honest, don't we hope our children will grow up and be productive, responsible citizens that make us proud of them? Don't we hope for grandchildren to love and cherish? Don't we hope for things like enough money to pay the bills or go on vacation, or to buy a car? For food, new clothes, a new computer or Kindle Fire, or maybe a piano or motorcycle?
Perhaps a great Christmas for our kids or grandkids, or a godly loving spouse for our child. We hope we can pay our taxes, have a better president, health care, less pain, better health, a good paying job that we actually like, and all kinds of things don't we?

In fact, that very same false teaching we discussed before, the prosperity gospel even encourages us to hope for those things and "claim" them, saying that God will then give them to us. But if we look at the folks in the Hall of fame, what did they hope for? Did they "claim" things like that? No! Does God ever encourage us to? No, He tells us the opposite. Not only did they not hope for or claim things like that, some even left those kind of things behind for God. So once again the Bible shows us how false that kind of teaching is.

We like to know where we're going and what we're going to do, and yet these folks often didn't know those things and some of them that did know, knew they were going into some pretty scary places.
What would make someone do that? Only one thing really....love. It reminds me of Ruth who loved her mother in law so much that she gave up literally everything in order to go with her back to Israel. A place she didn't know at all, that was full of strange customs and strange people. Because she loved Naomi though, she went and wound up falling in love with God and Boaz and becoming the ancestor of our Lord.

But how did she learn to love God and how did she know what to be sure of so she could hope for it? In her case, her mother in law, her husband (that died) and later Boaz taught her about Him. Not only did they teach her in words, but their lives taught her as well. Once she got to Israel, I'm sure many of the people she met and became friends with also taught her both with their lives and with words. Naomi would have known the scriptures since childhood as would her sons and of course Boaz, and would have taught her those.

Unfortunately for us though, that's rare to find now days. But then the Lord told us it would be. God warned us it would be like this. That false teachers and false prophets would abound and lead many astray from Him and those who weren't led astray that way, would desire the world more then Him and so would have false teachers that would preach the world's ways instead of His ways. Reading 2 Timothy 3:1-9 gives us a good picture of many Christians in our day. None of them love the Lord. None of them have faith or can be sure of what they hope for, because the things they hope for are like the things I mentioned above. While the people in the hall of fame hoped for the Lord, not to free them from political enemies like the Jew's of Jesus' time, not to give them money or fame or power, or prestige. Not even to get good spouses for their children or whatever. I'm not saying they didn't want their children to marry well or anything like that, I'm saying those weren't things they hoped for. Those were things they did their best about and just went on with their lives because they knew the best was yet to come.

How do we love the Lord with all our hearts, minds and strength, with a love so strong it makes us long to be with Him? I'm afraid that some aren't going to like the answer, but the truth is, it's through studying His Word with Him daily. It's through His Word and talking to Him that we learn about Him; that we learn who He really is, what He's like. It's how our love for Him grows. See, first He loves us and pours His love into our hearts so that we can have the capacity to love Him. Then, as we study His Word with Him, that love for Him grows and expands. It changes us too.

It's similar to a human relationship. If you were to meet someone and fall in love with them and then never see them again, or talk to them or hear from them again, eventually your love would grow cold and die. I've thought of it this way: An abused child rarely knows or understands what love is. They have to be gently and carefully shown and taught about true love for quite a while before they begin to understand it and react to it in any way other then distrust. Aren't we all really abused children? Not by our parents necessarily, but by Satan, our own flesh and the world? Our choice then is to remain abused children, reacting to everyone and everything in our lives out of that abuse; or to latch on to God and His love for us and learn what true love really is; and then eventually to react to everyone and everything in our lives out of that true love.

That's really how the whole world is isn't it? A world full of abused children, continuing to abuse each other, except for the few who've been truly saved and are being gently shown and taught each day by God about His love through His Word.
As they learn, they're changed, and become more and more like Him. The more they learn about Him, and His love, the more their love for Him grows. Because they are being taught by Him from His Word, they know that what they're learning is True and that they can be sure of it.

As we learn about Him from the old and new testament, our love becomes so strong that we can even rejoice when going through trials and hard times, just like those in the Hall of faith. This is why Peter says,
1 Peter 1:8–9 —Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, *for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls. *

Part of the problem in our world is that the world teaches us lies even about love itself, so that we don't even know what love really is until God begins to teach us from His Word. That's also why He wants us to study His Word and not someone else's word. Someone else may teach us what the world says, like the prosperity people do, but if we study His Word daily, we'll discover the truth not only about Him but about love as well. If we're to have faith, then we must study His Word for that's where faith comes from: Rom 10:17 —Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word of Christ. * and we know too that without faith, we can't please Him, which makes it even more important to do.

I guess we should also touch more on what faith really is for there is more then one kind of faith, but there is only one kind that saves. When Jesus tells us to "believe", He's telling us to trust Him. That's what's lacking in other kinds of faith. Demons believe and know He is God and they even submit to His Word when He speaks to them, and do so faster then we do for the most part. When we believe and trust Him though, then and only then, are we changed - our lives are changed. That's the kind of faith that saves. That's why Jesus told us to look and see what kind of fruit the person's life showed to determine if they were saved or not. We're frequently told that we were saved to do good works and that God prepared those works for us before creation even. So we see that the works themselves don't save us, it's our faith that saves us and the works or the "fruit" is the evidence of our salvation. It helped me to understand it by realizing that dead faith only touched the mind or intellect and demonic faith touched the mind and emotions, but true faith involves all of us. It touches our minds, our hearts and our wills. True, saving faith leads to obedience which results in good works. By "good works" I don't mean just helping out in a soup kitchen and feeding the poor, although that's certainly one, but works can include many things. The first thing we do in obedience is start studying His Word with Him regularly. (well, that's usually the first thing) Another is being baptized in obedience to Him. Each sin we repent from (meaning we stop doing it) is a "good work", and so on.

Many people seem to have the wrong idea of what studying with Him daily entails. It does not mean that you have to have commentaries or dictionaries or other theology books. It does not mean that you must spend hours every day studying. ALL you need is God and a bible. That's it. As for time spent, that's best determined by each individual and the Lord. It can be 15 minutes if that's really all you have or a half an hour a day, or more. There simply is no "right amount of time" to spend studying with Him.
As far as how to study with Him and what that means, it simply means reading your bible and while you're reading it, talking to Him about what you're reading. Asking Him questions, making comments, etc. Just as though the two of you were sitting and reading together - because, in reality, you are! You'll be amazed at how much and how quickly you're learn that way. There simply is no better teacher then the Lord. After all, it IS His Word I honestly didn't have anything other then the Lord and my bible for many years when I started studying with Him either.

I can guarantee you that if we do that, our love for the Lord will grow and grow until we too will truly long for the Lord. When we get to that point, the unsaved sit up and take notice. Because then we're not concerned so much about the things of this world. They mean very little to us and seem to mean even less with each passing day. We'll no longer grieve as the unsaved do either for we'll be sure of what we hope and long for. And we won't be at all afraid of death, not even of pain before death. We'll be like children who've been promised some fantastic gift if we'll let the doctor give us a shot. Our minds won't be on the injection, we'll be excitedly thinking of finally seeing our Lord! And when someone asks us what we hope for, the very first thing that will come to our minds will be being with our Lord, for we'll know that there simply isn't anything or anyone that could possibly be better then that. We'll realize that His love is so fantastic, so amazing, and so far surpasses anything or even anyone this world could offer, that we can't imagine considering anything else. Yes, Heaven is going to be great and I know that the Lord is preparing things so wonderful for us that we can't even begin to imagine them. But you know what? I know that's true, because I know that's just how my Lord is, and while I know I'll enjoy all He's preparing for us, that's really secondary to finally being with Him.

Knowing Him and His love, has changed me radically and I still have much to learn of both.
The way of faith - being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see (trust) - is the way of victory, peace, assurance, joy and endurance.
Yep. I'm homesick. I want my Daddy!

Let me quote the parts from Hebrews that are especially about all this, but I'd also suggest studying the whole chapter with the Lord when you have time. You won't regret it!

Hebrews 11:9–10 —By faith he made his home in the promised land like a stranger in a foreign country; he lived in tents, as did Isaac and Jacob, who were heirs with him of the same promise. *For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God. *

Hebrews 11:13–16 —All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance. And they admitted that they were aliens and strangers on earth. *People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own. *If they had been thinking of the country they had left, they would have had opportunity to return. *Instead, they were longing for a better country—a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them. *

 

The Hall of Faith

Hebrews 11 is often called "the hall of faith" and is one of my favorite chapters, especially when I need encouragement. It reminds me of so very much.

One of the first things it reminds me of is that God has set us apart from the rest of this world. It's more then that though. While it's quite true that God has called us to be separate from the world, we obviously still have to live in it. In Hebrews 11:13–16, as in other places, He tells us how we're to do that, what our frame of mind is to be. After all, we grow up used to thinking of this earth as our home and we know that the only way to change a habit is to replace it with a different one. Here God tells us what we're to replace that habit of thinking with.

Instead of thinking of this world as our home, we're to consider Heaven, New Jerusalem, our home. He says that we're not only to think of it as our home, but we're to "long for it". That chapter in Hebrews shows us more then 16 different people who longed for their real home instead of some great mansion on earth, and some of the terrible hardships they suffered while they were here.

Now that doesn't exactly sound comforting does it? The hardships part I mean. But it really is in a couple of ways. First, it confirms for us that people of faith (for that's what these people are commended for) DO go through horrible hardships. It lets us know that the prosperity gospel's teaching that hardships are caused by lack of faith is way off base. Therefore we don't have to wonder or worry that our own faith is lacking because of the hardships we go through. I haven't seen or heard of a single prosperity preacher who's faith was anywhere near that of any of the folks named in this chapter, and yet they hold themselves up as examples. God's Word doesn't lie though, we know we can trust it, and His Word tells us that no matter how much faith you have, hardships, trials, sickness, death, and sorrow, will come your way. It's quite a comfort and very freeing to know that according to God, these things don't happen to us because of lack of faith.

There's another lesson in these hardships they faced for us too. We notice that it wasn't the hardships that caused them to yearn after their heavenly Home. That surprised me at first, but if you read it carefully, and you study the OT that tells about each of them, you find that they all yearned for their real homes before there was any hardship to cause it. So they weren't just longing to escape their troubles here and that's a major thing to consider. If they weren't longing for that, then what were they longing for that Home for?

The only way I know of to determine things like that, besides studying their lives, is to ask myself, why I'd get homesick at times when I was away from home as a child. That was easy...I wasn't longing for the house, or my toys, I wanted my Mom and Dad! And that, my friends, is what these folks were longing for: they longed for their heavenly Father and their Savior. "Home" was where He was!
There is a danger here that we need to be aware of though. I've heard of orphans who would feel "homesick" although they'd never had a real home that they could remember. What they were really homesick for was what for them was an "ideal" of what they thought home would be like-generally the opposite of what they'd experienced and usually not anything like the reality of what even the best homes are like. There are abused women who are heartbroken when their husband who's been abusing them leaves them. They think it's because they love their husband and he doesn't love them anymore, but he never did really love them, so why all of a sudden are the heart broken? It's because they no longer have the chance of the dream of the ideal marriage with them that they wanted. It's the dream or ideal that's gone; the reality certainly isn't worth being heartbroken over. There's a real danger of that with the Lord too.

We need to be sure that we're like those people who are mentioned in the hall of faith, that we truly love the Lord and not just our idea of who He is. You see, our ideas won't hold up under the pressure of severe trials, hardship and disappointment, but the real Lord will. We need to be sure that our faith and love is for the Lord and that we know Him well.

When we look at the people in the hall of faith, we see that they didn't even get what was promised and yet they still loved Him and their faith was still strong. That's the kind of love and faith we need to have. When they longed for their real Home and for the Lord, it wasn't for some pie in the sky made up mansion they'd dreamed up, but they longed to be with the God of Israel, who they knew well and thought of with great love.

It always reminds me of Daniel's 3 friends, Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego when the King threatened to throw them in the furnace. They told him that while their God could save them, that they would worship Him and only Him, even if He chose not to save them! Now that's faith! More, that's love! And that's the kind of faith and love all the people mentioned in the hall of faith had. Daniel and his friends were really still kids when this happened. They were perhaps around 18 years old. Can you imagine an 18 year old today that would love the Lord and trust Him that much?

When we compare our lives to those in the Hall of faith, we often don't see the love, faith, joy or hope demonstrated in our own lives. When we look at ourselves and at others at church, we often don't see many who obviously truly long to be with the Lord, and don't know anything about New Jerusalem or Heaven. How can that be when we have an even greater reason for it then they did?

That's actually a sign of the times we live in. I don't say that to excuse it, for it's still inexcusable, but only as a fact that the Lord knew this would happen before He returned. Thankfully there is a "cure" for it though. I'll talk about all this in my next post.