Showing posts with label hate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hate. Show all posts

Saturday, March 22, 2014

Homosexuality in the End Times

I originally posted this on May 26th, 2010

Not too long ago, I went off line at about 4:30 to finish cleaning up the house and get supper started for Bruce for when he got home from work. We both like to listen to the news when it comes on at 5pm so I turned the TV on our local news station so that it would be on the right channel when the news came on. While cleaning I realized that the show playing then was Oprah and she had on a young country music star who had apparently recently come out and said she was a lesbian. She told a heart wrenching story of how she hid it all her life from everyone including her parents and how being brought up in a good Christian home she was sure she was hated by God and would go to hell for it. Her story was truly heart wrenching and my heart went out to her and to all those like her.

Unfortunately she still doesn't understand the Truth. She thinks she feels a billion times better now because she's told the truth and she's not "living a lie" anymore. And well she should! Lying is a sin (as she knew too) and of course "living a lie" is a sin as well. Sin hurts us in many ways and hurts those around us. So here are these poor people who are so enslaved to many sins that they feel their only way out is to either kill themselves and get it over with, or be a practicing homosexual and decide (somehow) that God doesn't see homosexuality as a sin anymore.

What's even sadder is that many of these people were raised in "good Christian homes" and went to "good Christian churches". Where then was the discipleship they so badly needed when they were young??? Why then do they not understand that God never hated them because they were tempted to sin??? He hates the sin, not them. Where is their understanding that God doesn't make mistakes, that He doesn't create people as "homosexuals" or pedophiles, or thieves, or murderers, or liars etc. Why do they not understand that all of those things, like so many others, are quite simply sins and temptations??? Why do they not understand that God has called us to take our thoughts captive and make them obedient to Christ???

Do they seriously believe that God creates people to be murderers and thieves and homosexuals??? Apparently they do, but they are so very wrong!

How very sad that they feel they have to act on their sinful desires in order to "be happy." All they had to do was tell the truth about their sinful desires to have a homosexual relationship instead of hiding them. It's when we hide our sins that we give Satan a hold over us and many of these people obviously hid this sin for a very long time. Then instead of confessing the sinful thoughts/feelings and taking them captive in Christ, they went the other way and determined to find a way to reconcile their sin and yet remain "Christian". Just as Adam blamed God for his sin when he said, "the woman you gave me" made me do it, so they are blaming God for their sin by saying "God made me this way so it's His fault".

And now they are blaming those "good Christian churches" for all their problems and this young lady actually said that churches are ruining young people by telling them that homosexuality is wrong!!!

Unfortunately she's right in some ways. Churches that haven't been or aren't discipling their youngsters, and parents that are waiting for the church to teach their children God's Ways instead of doing it themselves are hurting the young.


Our children should all know that they will be tempted many times in many ways, but that being tempted doesn't make them "bad"and isn't a sin. It doesn't become a sin until we act on the temptation or dwell on the temptation.  It simply means that they need to turn to the Lord for His help and they need to be taught how to guard their minds and hearts by taking their thoughts captive for Christ. Basically, it means they're human! They need to know that they can always go to God about any thought or feeling they have and that He loves them always and that He will help them. That doesn't mean that He will make it easy for them though. There's a big difference between helping someone and doing it for them! And that's a HUGE thing that many people today simply don't get anymore.

Everyone wants everything handed to them on a silver platter instead of having to work for it. While God does give us gifts that way sometimes, for the most part He requires us to work out our salvation and use the tools He's given us in His Word.


I could go on and on about what they "should" have been taught, and what they should know, but you get the idea. What's so horribly sad though is that now, because these people think that they have finally been "freed" they are preaching their "salvation" to everyone, using every means at their disposal--TV, Radio, movies, the Internet, meetings and community groups, political activism etc.

Some of them are in many ways a part of this "new Christianity", that Warren, Piper, and others preach--but it's a Christianity without the Gospel and those people are going to go to Hell and will bring everyone else right along with them!
So this half of the homosexual group is attacking the church, the body of Christ, with all the ammunition they can bring on it, and the other half, the half that are "atheists" are paving the way for them in society by mocking God.

It really opened my eyes (even wider) to how very active Satan is in our times! It's like an old fashioned cattle round up, only humans are the cattle and they're being rounded up to go to Hell. I think these people, these "stars" are going to be at the forefront of the battle to have the bible banned as hate speech and that's just part of what they'll accomplish. The question is, how much of it will we witness before the rapture???
We need to understand that it's important for us to know the Truth about what God says in His Word and tell people about that Truth.  Christians don't seem to have any problem pointing out to a murderer or a thief that they have sinned and need a Savior, or that God loves them and wants to save them.  But when it comes to someone saying they're homosexual, suddenly everyone clams up or spouts the oft heard phrase, "I can't judge them" as an excuse not to speak the Truth in love to them.  All they're doing though is condemning these poor folks who are already suffering to an eternity of yet more suffering!  We need to stand up for God's Truth and not be intimidated by the homosexual activists who condemn us and say the bible is hate speech.  They only say that because Satan has blinded them to the truth and because they've heard some very real hate speech even from Christians!  Instead we need to let them know the very same things we'd tell any sinner, regardless of what their sin is:  That God loves them more then they can imagine and He doesn't want them to suffer.  He wants them to spend eternity with Him.  That doesn't mean this life will be easy, or that they won't be tempted by homosexual thoughts and feelings.  It means that just as we have to do about any sin we're tempted about, they have to do with this one:  ask the Lord for help, study His Word, flee from any tempting situations and not allow ourselves to be put in any tempting situation, and finally to take any sinful thoughts, ideas, feelings, imaginings etc captive and replace them with God's Truth.  That's how we're to deal with any sin, any temptation.  We need to let them know that they're not bad and not sinning because they're tempted and that it only becomes a sin when they insist on dwelling on sinful things or acting on them.  We need to make sure they understand that once they are saved they cannot lose their salvation, and if they were really saved before, then they still are.  What they can lose though is the closeness of their relationship with the Lord, as that's what happens when sin comes between us and Him until we repent of it.  So we need to let them know how to repair their relationship with Him.  (through confession and repentance and then obeying Him)  We need to pray for these people and pray hard for Satan, the world and their flesh have all come against them to keep them from our Father's comfort and love which is the one thing they need above all else. 

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Are We Hating Our Lives?

As I was talking to the Lord the other day about living in these times, He led me to these two verses: John 12:25The man who loves his life will lose it, while the man who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.and Luke 14:26–27“If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be my disciple. *And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.and I felt compelled to reflect on them, as they seemed to come into my heart with a special force this time. Because of that, I've continued to reflect on them since then and it's amazed me at how blind I've been all these years.  I understood before the basics of what these verses say, just as I'm sure we all do, but they hadn't settled down deep into my heart and soul.  The more I consider them, the more I understand that we're to actually hate our lives in this world, in comparison to the life He offers us.  It's not just that we're to hate our lives here though, it's just as important that we love the Life He is offering us, for if we only have the hate, all that will do is poison us.  It's the love for Him and the Life He gives us, that's will get us through this life without faltering.

Of course all through the Bible we're told to love God and hate evil, but this goes even further, telling us to hate our lives - the lives we're living right now, and instead, to long for real Life, the Life He offers us through our salvation.  

He actually showed me the verses I've printed above in the order I've given them.  For at first I was considering that I was only to hate evil, as His Word tells us too, and never considered the people in my life, especially not those I love.  After all, I'd just finished praying for the salvation of my loved ones and the loved ones each of you have asked prayer for.  How could I hate them???  Yet, He then showed me the verses in Luke.  I've always understood that He meant that we were never to place anyone above Him or before Him, but as I considered it in this context, I came to understand it more fully.  For I think I have often placed them before Him in various ways. I think we all do.  

It reminded me again that our hearts are deceitful and not to be trusted.  (Jeremiah 17:9; Ecclesiastes 9:3; Proverbs 28:26; Mark 7:21–23) That in order to truly determine our own motives, we must go to the Lord and ask Him for wisdom and to show us the Truth. For He is the only One who knows what's truly in our hearts, and only He can reveal any sin that is in us. Considering that, the Lord surprised me by reminding me of this scripture: Matthew 18:8–9If your hand or your foot causes you to sin cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire. *And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell.

We console ourselves and say that the Lord didn't really mean this literally, and often rush through the scripture, not looking at it closely, for it seems awfully harsh.  Yet it's there for a reason and it goes along with the fact that we're to hate our lives here and hate even our most loved ones if we're going to follow the Lord.  He's showing us, yet again, how very important the Life He has for us is in comparison to this life.  See, we think this life is the all in all, but it's not.  It pales greatly in comparison to Real Life - the Life He has for us.  This life is nothing compared to it!

In fact, there is nothing in this life, nothing- including our own bodies, that is worth losing the Life He offers us, or missing out on even one of the great rewards He has for us there!  That's why He goes so far as to tell us to cut off our foot if it's causing us to sin, and yet instead, we'd rather stop reading our Bibles and thinking about Him so that we don't have to deal with being convicted of whatever our pet sin currently is.  

Just after the above verses in Luke, the Lord goes on in Luke 14:28–33, to tell us that because of all of this, we should therefore count the cost of following Him before we start.  Jesus never said that life after salvation would be easy. How could it be "easy" if we're to hate this life and those we love compared to Him and the Life He has for us?  Instead, He tells us to count the cost and then, only if we think it's worth it, are we to take that step and ask to belong to Him.  For this life will be hard, harder than that of unbelievers, not easier.  

How many times and in how many ways does the Lord have to tell us that this life is going to be hard; that the unsaved are going to hate us - not "dislike us", not "just tolerate us", but hate us, before we believe Him? And that includes our loved ones.  How often I complain because it's hard, actually thinking I deserve better!  Why should my life be any easier then my Lord's life here was?  His own family, His mother, brothers and sisters, ridiculed Him and didn't believe Him until after He died and rose again! So why do I bewail the fact that some in my family are the same way, and feel upset, when in fact, He told us it would be this way!  Why do I cling to my loved ones or my possessions, (remember how Jesus told the young man to sell all had and follow Him?) or my sin, when they can't hold a candle to what He has for me?  It's like wanting a handful of dirt instead of a handful of diamonds!

Jesus finishes His talk about the cost of following Him by again saying:  Luke 14:33In the same way, any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple. * After which He reminds us that we shouldn't start what we don't intend to finish.  Luke 14:34–35“Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? *It is fit neither for the soil nor for the manure pile; it is thrown out. “He who has ears to hear, let him hear.” * This reminds me of when He warned us that we cannot serve 2 masters.  We can't love this life and look forward to the next.  Instead He says to hate this life, hate possessions, people, including loved ones, even ourselves and our bodies - anything and anyone that comes between us and Him, and put Him, His Word, and the Life He has for us as the only things worth living for. He says this life will be hard, but it will be more then worth it!

I can't speak for anyone else, but looking at my own life, it certainly doesn't look anything like this.  Suddenly, it seems that I have an awful lot of possessions that I don't need and that actually do hinder my life in Him. Yet, all the while, I'm wanting "more."  It seems that there are people in my life that shouldn't be as well as things; and desires I give in to that I shouldn't.  Suddenly too, I seem to feel very blessed, whereas before I was whining about what I didn't have and wanted.  He's certainly given me a lot to consider!